6/11/07
First Impressions of D.C.
6/8/07
My First Encounter With The Nation's Capital
My daughter Zoe and I, along with eight other students and parents from the Kellogg School District travel back east for National History Day. Zoe and her group perform on Monday, the group performance on the Sunshine Mine Disaster.
So, since it is almost midnight, and we leave Kellogg around 3 p.m., I bit you adieu until I say hello again soon.
Silver Valley Girl (transplanted for a week in the Nation's Capital)
#80--My Tree--Fare Thee Well 'Til Friday
Goodbye, Sunnyside Elementary
6/7/07
#79--My Tree--Blowin' in the Stormy Weather
6/4/07
This is Where I Belong

It is not the city. It is not the country. It is a rural area, population around 2500. It is located within an area called the Silver Valley, with a population around 10,000.
I love living in the place where I was born, because there are so many connections, and I feel a part of where I am living. This is where I belong.
For me, Kellogg is in my very being. I am a part of her rhythm. I have climbed her hills. I have walked, biked, run and driven on her streets. I have swum in her creeks and fished in her rivers. I have played in her parks, and attended her schools. This is where I belong
I come from a mining community, where weather was never really a factor is our everyday life.
After college, I moved to an agricultural community, where they used dry land farming, it was in the middle of a drought, and all they talked about was the weather. That was different.
I grew up in a small, mountainous valley where the river and the Interstate split the two mountain ranges, and for me it was close, and safe and comfortable. I would travel home from eastern Montana, and as soon as I hit the Bitteroot Valley, around Frenchtown, Montana, I would start to feel like I was home. This is where I belong.
Some who came here were stifled by the closed in valley, and would need to leave every so often to keep from suffocating.
To them they were stifled. To me, I was comforted.
My next move was to the Treasure Valley of southern Idaho, to Meridian. It is the high dessert. Lots of sage brush, and foothills, and big, open sky. Over the nine years I lived there, that area became more and more “citified”, gaining more and more people. Malls sprouted up. Subdivisions covered the once fertile farmland. Traffic came to a standstill during the evening rush hour.
My husband and I knew we would eventually end up living here in Kellogg. We didn’t actively pursue coming back, just one of those feelings we knew would come true. And it did. In the summer of 2000, my husband started a job here in Kellogg, and we returned. Kellogg called us back, and we responded with yes, we will come. This is where I belong.
I love many aspects of the “city life”, but I can travel to a city, get my city fix for a day or a weekend, or even a week, then go back to my rural, mountainous valley and enjoy the slower pace and the connection I have with the area my grandparents traveled to and settled in the 1920’s, where my dad was born in 1930, and where I now live, 77 years after his birth, and know…
…this is where I belong.
6/3/07
Pain in the Neck

Well, maybe it is really more a pain in the shoulder.
And I don’t do well with pain.
As I type, pain shoots down my arm to my hand because of this knot in my right shoulder.
It is all because I wanted to start doing some weight training with our dumbbells on Thursday. I only used five pound weights, and just went through about 10 reps on each type of exercise, just to refresh my memories on how they were each done.
Well, this seemed to aggravate the muscles in my neck and shoulder area, causing them to cinch into a knot and hurt really bad.
Right now I put a Icy Hot patch on the area, and have a heating pad covering it to give me some relief.
I can’t get comfortable in bed, because I like to sleep on my stomach, and I can’t find a comfortable spot lying in bed that way….so I need to sleep on my back, which isn’t quite as comfy. ARGH!!!
That is what I get for not being disciplined the past couple of years with working out with any regularity…so now my neck and shoulders are so messed up, that I try and give them a little exercise and they rebel against me.
So, PKR has had some similar problems, and he said I just need to ease back into it, and not work those muscles too much at first.
I asked him how long it is going to last.
He said he wasn’t sure.
I’m leaving Saturday on a jet plane for Washington D.C., and I really don’t want to deal with this knot while traveling. Sleeping on the plane and in different beds will be bad enough.
Plus, it made me really cranky today…and I don’t like being cranky. I’m snapping at the girls for stupid little reasons, just because I’ve got a pain in the neck. I think I was become a big pain in their necks.
But, I can’t let this slow me down on the path to healthier living. Once I’m home from D.C. the training begins…
(Start hearing Rocky theme...
Do do do do do do do do do do do…
Trying hard now, its so hard now, trying hard now..Getting strong now, wont be long now, getting strong now..Gonna fly now, flying high now, gonna fly, fly, fly.)
But first, I just want to get rid of this pain in my neck so I can get a good night's sleep.
6/1/07
Remembering Dad
I gave the assignment to my siblings this week to talk about memories around Dad’s funeral. That was a very difficult time for me personally. I could have had a break down during that time, but I didn’t.
My youngest daughter was born in September 1995, This was only 13 ½ months after my middle daughter was born. My oldest daughter was five at the time, and had just started kindergarten. I remember that fall, dad hadn’t felt very good, and was going to the doctor a lot. I was living in Meridian, Idaho at the time, about an 8 hour drive from Kellogg.
At the beginning of May, Dad was diagnosed with cancer, and the doctor said he had about one month to live. I made arrangements to go to Kellogg and spend a week or so at Mom and Dad’s house. I remember taking my in-law’s car and driving to Kellogg. My mother-in-law may have been with me, because her father, my husband’s grandpa, was also sick. He also lived in Kellogg.
So I was at the home of my childhood, with my five year old, my one year old, and my 9 month old baby. My Dad was able to be at home during his last month of life, and have his doctor come to him, and also had a Hospice nurse taking care of him. I remember at one point, the pain was getting bad and they gave him morphine, and that is when the weirdness began, which I think is rather common.
So this was going on in my home. Across town, at the Taylor residence, Paul Taylor’s family was gathering because Grandpa Taylor had a stroke and was in the hospital in Coeur d’Alene, and wasn’t expected to live much longer. I remember PKR came up to Kellogg one weekend, and was able to say goodbye to his grandpa before he passed away sometime in the middle of May. The following week was his funeral.
So, between my dad dieing, and PKR’s grandpa dieing, I wasn’t holding it together very well. I felt like I needed to be a support to those around me. But I also needed some support from others, but my husband, my main support, was 8 hours away, and my other support, my own family and my husband’s family, had much bigger things on their minds, so I really had no where to turn. And keeping a baby, a toddler and a five year old quiet in a house wasn’t the easiest job in the world.
I do remember pleading with my sister-in-law Laurie to go out to dinner with me one night, which she did. I think that may have been my salvation. I’m not sure she realizes how important that dinner was to me, but it was very important.
I remember sitting next to dad while he was in bed one afternoon. He was very restless, in a drug induced state, and I rubbed his arm and sang and prayed for a while. At some point, he woke up enough to realize it was me, and I think the fact I was there with him and he was in that state made him very uncomfortable, and he wanted me to leave.
Soon, it was time to take my family back to Meridian. I still remember Dad sitting in his chair in the living room, holding all my girls, and me video taping it. (I still haven’t been able to watch that tape. Maybe this is the year to do it.) What a special blessing of being able to say goodbye this way, though. With all my girls on my dad’s lap, and then going out the front door, and telling him I loved him, but knowing I would never see him again. That was tough.
About a week or so later, my sister called me at my home in Meridian saying Dad had passed away. From what I remember her telling me, Dad had struggled all night, in his bed, fighting to die, and my sister said she prayed for the angels to take him away. And he finally gave in, and he was gone. I think Mom went in and shut his eyes.
I remember PKR’s Aunt Nancy coming over and hugging and crying with me. She had just lost her dad, too, so she knew what I was going through.
We went home to Kellogg for the funeral, and again stayed for a while that summer. It was the summer Dante’s Peak was filmed in Wallace, and I remember going up and seeing how the town of Wallace was transformed to look like the aftermath of an erupting volcano.
Kind of like I had been about a month earlier. But I never blew. I think God gave me the grace to hold it all together for my girls, my mother, my sister and my brother. And we all survived. And now we fondly remember Raymond “Pert” Woolum each time we are together.
I do wish he still lived here, now that I am living in Kellogg, the town he loved. He could tell me so many stories, and he could share about so many things. But now Dad lives in our memories, in our stories, and in the hearts of his friends around town who still, after eleven years, tell me how much they miss that old “son of a b****”.
Dad was loved by many people. He was a great guy. I wish I couldn’t have known that guy a lot better….but it wasn’t meant to be.
But your legacy of loving Kellogg lives on in your kid’s, Dad, and we thank you for giving us such a great hometown…and for being such a great dad.
I sure miss you!
The Festival of Trees 12--Meditations
At the suggestion of Crafty Green Poet, I submitted my post and it is featured in this month's festival here.
As the host blog, Arboreality asks us to wander today’s collection, consider our simple, personal connections with trees and forests outside of environmental politics, policies, and as-yet-unsolved problems.
Enjoy!
5/31/07
Clematis Bloom, New Meme and PKR Gets New Job
1. I was blessed with two very mature clematis plants in my backyard when I moved to this house last spring. This flower is from the smaller of the two, and the first to bloom. I can see this bloom out my patio door. I think it is so beautiful.2. Ponderosa Pinings tagged me for a new meme. Here are my results.
INSTRUCTIONS: Remove the blog in the top spot from the following list and bump everyone up one place. Then add your blog to the bottom slot, like so:
1) BlondeMomBlog
2) It's A Schmitty Life
3) Life is short, buy the shoes
4) Ponderosa Pinings
5) Silver Valley Stories
Next select five people to tag:
(Sorry, but I'm skipping this part. Join in if you would like. Leave me a comment if you do.)
Answer the following questions:
What were you doing 10 years ago?
I was living in Meridian, Idaho. My children were 6, 2 and 1. I was a stay at home mom who did a little bit of childcare. Besides being a full time teacher at one of Meridian's Alternative High Schools, my husband was the Youth Pastor at our church, and I helped him minister to the middle school and high school youth. I also was very involved in my daughter's school, helping with the PTO group, and volunteering in class. I loved to garden and bake and can food. I loved to write, and helped write our church's newsletter. Life seemed a little slower and simpler then. A different kind of busy I guess.
What were you doing one year ago?
I had just moved into my new house at the end of March, and was still getting settled,
Five snacks you enjoy:
Cheese
crackers
popcorn
pretzels
apples
Five songs that you know all the lyrics to:
Love Will Keep Us Together
Moon River
Won't You Come Home Bill Bailey
Copacabana
My Favorite Things
Five things you would do if you were a millionaire:
Hire a personal financial advisor
Hire a maid
Get out of debt
Save for girl's college tuition
Save for traveling
Five bad habits:
Eating late at night
Sitting too much
Reading the paper first instead of the Bible in the morning
Not planning meals for the week
Forgetting to clean out the litter boxes
Five things you like doing:
Going for a walk each night with my husband
Helping lead worship in church
Praying and reading the Bible and having something new revealed to me
Sitting and talking with my three daughters and laughing at our own private jokes
Spending time with my brother and sister and mom.
Five things you would never wear again:
Cheap, uncomfortable shoes
Big 80's hair
Clothes with big padded shoulders
Leggings
Maternity Clothes
Five favorite toys:
Laptop computer
Espresso machine
Karaoke Machine
Backgammon Board
Digital Camera
3. My husband PKR has been a teacher at alternative high schools since 1991. He worked at Meridian Academy in Meridian, Idaho for 8 years, and has been the director of Silver Valley High School here in Kellogg for 6 years. Well, change is coming. Yesterday, he interviewed for and was offered the job of Drama/Speech and English teacher at Kellogg High School, which he accepted today. He is very excited, and it was fun last night taking our walk, and having him share some of his vision for the drama program at the high school.
#77-My Tree--Sheltering Milo the Cat
5/29/07
Guest Trees from Martin Creek
Here is a weeping willow ( Oops! I mean a weeping birch. Thanks IEG!!) that greets you as you walk up to the front door.
What a beautiful maple that contrasts with all the green foilage surrounding it in the garden.
5/27/07
Smore Fest 2007
First, one needs to gather the three main smore ingredients: large, jet puffed marshmallows, graham crackers, and Hershey chocolate bars.
The second essential ingredient is a bed of hot coals to roast the marshmallows on.
And, of course, you need some good roasting sticks to put the marshmallows on so they can be roasted to a perfect golden brown.
Raymond Pert gets some help from Inland Empire Girl in assembling his smore.
Grandma Mary enjoyed her smore.

Kiki Aru and Z2 each had about five or six smores to tide them over. They give Smore Fest 2007 TWO THUMBS UP!!!

Inland Empire Girl's husband JEJ observes the Smorefest, but doesn't partake. His contribution was very important...he made the fire, and produced those perfect marshmallow roasting coals.
When everyone came inside and shared about the yummy smores, Raymond Pert's dog Snug was ready to run outside, grab himself a stick, and make one for himself.
Instead, he just laid down, and listened to Grandma Mary tell him a story before he went to bed.
5/26/07
I Remember Grandma West

I remember her sitting by the window in her rocking chair with the fan swaying to and fro
I remember her quietly greeting our family as we arrive for another summer vacation in August
I remember her asking how we were doing, and not knowing any other way to answer , I would say “fine”
I remember smelling the dark, rich earth of her garden that she planted faithfully each spring and I would see the results each August
I remember enjoying the bounty of that garden, including green beans, tomatoes and corn on the cob
I remember showering off in her bathroom after spending a day at the Clearwater River
I remember getting to play the piano that was in her living room in the mornings when she was outside working in her garden
I remember attending her 80th birthday when I was 12, and thinking she had lived a long, wonderful life. Who knew she had almost 17 more years to go.
I remember never hearing her raise her voice, or say a swear word.
I remember knowing she was a “no smoking” zone for her children and grandchildren
I remember she was a lady of high standards and principles
I remember I always knew she prayed for me
I remember that other people spoke fondly of my grandmother, just like people do my own mother
I remember thinking she was strong and courageous to have raised her family all by herself
I remember she was kind
I remember she was gentle
I remember she had a good sense of humor
I remember being with Mom and my new baby Molly when we got the phone call that Grandma West had died. It was the same weekend as Molly’s baby dedication. I think having her baby granddaughter there helped Mom through her initial grieving process.
I remember being sad that I couldn’t attend her funeral.
I miss her. I often wish I wasn’t so young when we went to Orofino, so I could have known her better.
But her memory lives on in her children and grandchildren through their baking, sewing, crafting, gardening, praying and their kindness to others.
Nona Walker West
Born December 27, 1894
Died November 24, 1990
Her final gift she left us was her gift of longevity. She was about one month shy of turning 97 years old when she died.
She lived a long, wonderful life.
I just wish I could have shared more of it with her.
Simple Gestures
Putting flowers beside the graves of my father, and my husband’s grandparents, Paul and Naydeen
Using a columbine flower from a plant that was in Naydeen’s garden, then her daughter Susie’s yard, and now in my flower bed, to put beside their gravemarker.
Planting hostas and other flowers in front of the house to make it look green and alive.
Arranging potted flowers in the front to give a splash of color.
Traveling to Martin Creek to spend a weekend with my mom, brother, sister, brother-in-law and two daughters.
Letting my oldest daughter stay home with her dad so she can get caught up on school projects.
Promising your youngest daughter you will play the card game of “Spoons” with her today.
Listening to your middle daughter memorize her lines for her upcoming performance.
Cooking breakfast for your family, and making that special potato dish you created.
Buying cough and cold medicine for your sister before you leave so she doesn’t have to drive back into town.
These are just a few small gestures that hopefully told some people
You are important.
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5/25/07
#76--My Tree--Blowin' in the Wind
5/24/07
#75--My Tree--A Diamond in the Rough
5/23/07
Finding Peace in my Backyard
Summing it all up, friends, I'd say you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies. Philipians 4: 8-9



